Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Frustrations

You know, some days just get to you.
Things can be rolling along smoothly and then poof!
One thing gets out of whack and just sticks in your head all day long.


Today has been one of those days. From patients who refuse to take their medicine properly to those who want things done immediately and do not realize that I cannot make the doctor sign things!!!!
I really do have sympathy for those who come in and do not understand how to take their medicines, but for those who decide they know better and just change them anyways..... yeah, that stretches it a whole lot! And to make your 93 or 91 year old momma come see another doctor just because they said to, when she already has cancer everywhere makes not a single lick of sense to anyone. And also add a boss who doesn't always read what has been written in the note and changes something in a way that makes no sense with how the patient actually takes it. And yet, WE are the ones who get fussed at by everyone and talked down to...

Friday, August 16, 2013

Obesity 

This article hits home on so many levels. While I am not considered obese I have several family members that are and we all live in the South. We do tend to take our eating very seriously down here, that is a fact, we are also not doing so well on the taking our health seriously. I see so many people who swear up and down that they are eating better and working on not eating as much, but then you see them somewhere and they are having 2 or 3 servings! That's not eating better, that's just eating the same amount with a small break in between plates.
Take my house, we have a family history of high cholesterol and heart problems, so our diets need to reflect a more healthy approach to eating. We are a multi-generational household at this time, and cooking is hard.  We have one who cooks a lot but uses lots of grease- bacon/old grease type of grease and lots of butter. Now, this I realize is how they cook and how they are used to cooking, but with the same type of family health history that I have they know that they should be eating better for their health but are refusing to do so. And, we have two others with family history of diabetes, they are 2 of the biggest sweets eaters in the house. They make them and they eat them, they do share though, but they tend to eat more of it than the rest of us. And finally, there are the kids, whom we all want to grow up to be healthy, happy eaters. I don't think they are getting that right now and I can see this being a problem with trying to teach them at this time about it. I love my family and my household and want them to be around for a long time, but I don't feel like I should have to be a watchdog, especially when they get upset with me about it.

So many people are going to say that the reason the South has more obesity is due to the fact that there is more use of food-stamps and such down here. We do have a lot that are on food stamps, I've been there done that. You can eat healthy on food stamps, but you have to be WILLING to change how  you cook! I think that is a bigger problem, is that people here don't know how to cook healthier and to make the changes that would show up in their health and on their scales and their children's' scales. There is not much of a push around here to get people to eat healthier even by health professionals, they keep telling people to lose weight, but they don't offer much in the way of the how to part. Nor, do we have any exercise facility that is low enough in cost for the lower income people to use when it is extremely too hot to be outside, which is pretty much July - September during the day, so that does make it hard on some people. I think there needs to be more education on how to be healthier, not just saying that people are not doing their own part. They don't know what to do or how to do it!

Ok, ramble over now.

Thursday, August 15, 2013


How perfect is that for me this week. With so much going on and getting ahead of myself in my anxiousness I definitely need peace  and not be afraid and remember that God has 'got this' and will direct my family and I in the way that we should go.

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

He is always with us...

Wonderful Reminder

Girlfriends in God

Girlfriends in God

There is so much to say about this devo--- so many topics that I can apply to my own life here.

Women do have this tendency to take on way too much and I am completely guilty of this, don't believe me ask Sean, and I know it when I agree to do it. I think it all goes back to parent pleasing. When we are growing up, we are taught that if we please our parents our life will go smoother. Then school, please the teachers and your days are much easier. Work just continues the pattern and at times, our spouses and children keep this pattern going on for what seems like the rest of the life. Please everyone and life goes smoother and everyone is happy. So, it's almost a natural extension to lump God in with the rest of the people in our life.

I think that's where our problem starts, we lump him in that little God box and think the same way that if we can please him by doing everything that anyone asks of us. Good service and being helpful and having a loving attitude and all of that jazz. Problem is, that is not what he wants, he wants us to live with him, through him, let him live through us. He wants us to take time to read his words and just enjoy the world that he created for us!

Now, for the hard part, finding that balance. I certainly do not have it. I remember last night, I finally stopped around 845pm and looked at my husband and said that I felt like I had been going since I got home. After I said that I realized that is exactly what I had been doing. I get home around 6pm and then it's straight into the supper, check homework, get clothes ready for school and work, bath and bedtimes. And often times, there is a load of clothes or something from the store that has to be gotten. So, I'm really clueless on finding the balance.

Anyone have any ideas on how to find the balance? 

This is the advice from the devo:
Now It’s Your Turn
  • Set aside 30 minutes this week to spend alone with God.
  • Examine your life for areas that are out of balance.
  • Record each area in your journal.
  • Surrender that unbalanced area to God and ask Him to show you how to abide in Him instead of relying upon yourself and your own strength.
  • Set aside one day this month for a silent retreat. Go to the beach – a park – or even your back yard! Just get alone with God and take a spiritual inventory of your priorities, time management and goals. The results may surprise you. 
I'm going to try it and see how it goes. Now, if I can get my husband and children to let me be while I try this....  

August 13th

Today is 1 month...
1 month until I leave this job.
1 month until I get to spend a bit more time with my children :-D
1 month until I get to spend more time with my husband. :-D

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On the other hand
1 month until I have no stable income


So what's going to happen is a really big question around my house these days. There are several things in the works right now and I know that God will help me get to where we need to be. I'd love to say that I'll be writing more and posting more but I'm not sure how that will pan out with the other ideas. I want to work on a book as well that is rattling around in me. But, first I have to make sure the money stays coming for the bills that won't stop coming, wish I could figure out a way around that one...


Monday, August 12, 2013


Today's Devo.

GIrlfriends in God

Asking God “Why”…. there are times when we have all done this and I’m sure still will be in the future. Especially people who like to have things all planned out and set, do not always appreciate the little surprises that God throws out. And we want to know “Why”

He definitely has his reasons for everything that we are going through and even for the emotions that we are feeling. There is something that he is trying to lead us to, or to teach us or even just show us about ourselves, our situation or our place in the world.

This verse speaks the most to me today,

No matter what we have gone through or what we will go through in the future, God promises: “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand: “ (Isaiah 41:10).

Whenever I think of all the things in my life that I have gone through, I am amazed at how some of them have turned out and know that could only be because of God’s hand being on me at that time. That he was leading me to where he wanted me to be and trying to shape me, even while I was fighting him and trying to keep control for myself. I can only give my everlasting thanks to him for keeping me during those struggles.

What are you struggling with right now? Do you need prayers? Email me, I might be one person, but I will pray for you.